We all agree that kids should help around the house, but it can be difficult to know what exactly they should be doing.

Our kids aren’t as helpless as we think, or they sometimes act. In fact, we’re harming them by doing everything for them.
When determining what responsibilities your kiddo can handle, take into consider their age and personality. They aren’t always going to love doing their chores, but it helps when they are responsible for things they are somewhat interested in.

My daughter loves animals, crafting and helping. I also know my daughter has trouble focusing some times, and rushes through certain tasks as quickly as she can.. so we have given her chores that we can easily measure her progress and see that she has done a thorough job!
My 11-year old’s daily chores include:
• Feeding the family pets
• Cleaning the cat box
• Picking up dog poop
• Tidying up bedroom
That doesn’t go to say she doesn’t help me out with other things around the house if I have a full to-do list. Overall, she is learning how to work efficiently and effectively, which will help her in many other areas in life.
Pitching in around the house helps teach our kids the basics of cleaning, organizing, and even cooking. These are all things they’ll need to do for themselves one day!
A study from Michigan State University discussed various points supporting that kids who do chores at home and school are also learning a work ethic that is critical to their future success. Having to finish chores before playing teaches kids that they must honor their responsibilities in order to earn their free time. Kids who grow up doing chores at home learn the skills they need for success in college and their early careers, get along better with others, and are more self-sufficient adults. I called my mom to both apologize and thank her after writing this.
Chores That Kids Can Do By Age
As our kids grow older, they grow more capable, too. So, in addition to the chores listed under their age group, they should have mastered the tasks on the lists from earlier years.
Note: If you’re just starting to teach your child chores, begin with ones from an earlier age group and add more responsibilities as they become more confident and able.
Toddlers
• Put dirty towels in the hamper.
• Help make beds.
• Pick up dirty clothes and put them in the hamper.
• Pick up toys, books and games.
• Wipe smudges off of doors.
3 to 5 years Old
• Dust baseboards.
• Dust cold air returns.
• Dust mop the floor.
• Dust picture frames.
• Dust tables.
• Feed the pets.
• Empty the bathroom trash can.
• Clean their room with help.
• Strip bed linens.
• Shake out the Welcome Mat.
• Shake out the car’s floor mats.
• Basic food prep (wash produce, tear lettuce)
• Set the table.
• Fold towels.
• Sort and roll/fold socks.
• Stack magazines neatly.
• Straighten and fluff sofa pillows.
